
The other day I was driving to our church where I was going to a blessing service for a couple celebrating their 8th anniversary. Their year has been roller coaster of tragedy and joy in which they lost their two-year-old son in a drowning accident and welcomed the birth of their 3rd baby. I was joining others in our community to surround and pray for them.
As I turned onto the ramp to get onto highway 100 there was a woman, about 50 years old, standing holding a sign that just said 694. Here’s what went through my head:
- That woman needs a ride to highway 694.
- She’s probably crazy.
- She’s a woman and she doesn’t look dangerous so maybe I could take her and not risk being killed or robbed or raped.
- I’m already doing a good thing (really, a HOLY thing). I have to get to this service or people will be disappointed because I said I’d be there.
- How long would it take me to drive her to 694? That's a long ways away isn't it? WHERE on 694?
- Doesn't it go in a circle? What if I end up driving in circles endlessly for the rest of my life?
- Is this like the story of the Good Samaritan in the Bible?
- Am I like the priest that hurried by on his way to church?
- But did HE have a “legitimate” excuse like mine?
- Did they have dangerous mentally ill people in the Bible standing along the side of the road needing help or were they just safe, “ordinary” people?
- Does Jesus make exceptions to the “rule” of loving others? Like only when you don’t have another commitment or only when it’s clearly safe?
I drove past her with my questions swirling, and pulled into the church parking lot.
I hear you, Laura! It's a daily struggle, especially for those of us working in downtown Minneapolis where there are a number of folks holding signs that express their need for help. Do I simply ignore them and walk past thinking they're all scamming generous, well-meaning passersby? Or, do I accept being swindled by some in order to help those genuinely in need? And, indeed, what about my own schedule and financial constraints? Your entry today reminds us always to examine our conduct in light of this convicting, Biblical standard.
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